Thursday, September 08, 2011

Why Innkeepers Need an Occasional Break

Psst. Don’t tell anybody, but Sven and I took a day off yesterday and, boy, did we enjoy it. How delightful to relax after a very busy Labor Day weekend! No Main House guests until late this afternoon. Yesterday night, I settled two businessmen into the cottage for the night. The weather is not ideal, but at least Cape Cod has been spared the heavy rain that caused flooding in Pennsylvania today. The businessmen were going to stay in Liberty Coin Suite, but I was able to give them an upgrade, since no one had booked the cottage. They were very happy with their accommodation. I’m glad I could offer this upgrade, but even more pleased that Sven and I have our home back for a short period. That’s the thing: when you run a B&B in a private home, sometimes your personal space gets reduced dramatically. The last group of folks even commandeered the living room. I was glad they were happy but equally glad to see them leave. Why? We always feel a responsibility towards our guests, so cannot totally relax when the house is full. Why? An innkeeper is on call 24 hours a day.

What’s more, innkeepers must be on best behavior at all times. After weeks and weeks of best behavior, the urge to let loose creeps up on you. For a day or two, we can do whatever we want, make as much noise as we want, choose when to wake up and when to go to sleep … After a couple days of R&R, we'll be ready to interact with new guests again.

Any innkeepers out there have suggestions on how to get the most out of a break?

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I'm glad you got your break. Being innkeepers sounds like so much work--with all the pros and cons of any job, but with the added con that it never leaves your personal space. I bet you really appreciate the days off. You could probably write a book about that. Thanks for this behind-the-scenes look, Alexandra.
Sandy, I'm so glad that you and Sven were able to take some time off from your work as innkeepers. You certainly deserve to dedicate carefree moments to yourselves when you're not looking after guests. Jackie's idea about a book sounds great, but first I guess you must finish the one about your mother (if I remember correctly). How's that coming along?. Buon weekend!
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Thanks, Charlotte. Funny that you should mention the book on my mom. I was working on it today. That's what I do in my spare time!

I have toyed with the idea of writing a book on innkeeping, as Jackie suggests, but for now it remains simply an idea in the back of my head for a future project.
I hope you enjoyed your time off, I'm sure it was well deserved! Cape Cod in the late summer after all the crowds have gone- great timing:)
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Linda Murphy · 706 weeks ago

When we have no guests, my biggest pleasure is that I can remove my detective cap...no wondering why there are three cars in the driveway, with only two guests, are those cigarette ashes on the bathroom floor, when no smoking in the house is allowed and worse of all, are they sneaking a dog in. Yes, once my guests had a dog in their car that I didn't discover for a day. When I confronted them, they denied it, but I said, "it sure looks like a dog". Enjoy the break and the peace.
No suggestions for you, but I'm so glad you were able to get out and about!
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NoPotCooking · 706 weeks ago

I'm glad you got some time off. I would not be able to handle sharing my home with other people!
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Taking time off is so important. It's great you were able to do it. I would imagine that every second away from work is precious (and well-earned)!
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Love this post, Sandy. Hope you and Sven can kick up your heels.
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I like the idea of your book on a sort of inside look into housekeeping. And I'm glad you were able to get some time off--that does sound like a lot of stress.
I've not been an innkeeper, but i did have a television gig that required me to be either physically present or on call seven days a week for many years. one of the things I found, which I am sure you and Sven have already learned, is to understand that it takes a mental/spiritual shift to transition from one role to the other, and honor the time needed for that -- even if you learn to make it happen n five minutes!. glad you and Sven had a bit of free time, and were able to enjoy it.
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sarah henry · 706 weeks ago

Everyone needs some time off the clock, no matter how much they enjoy what they do for work. Glad you and yours took a mini break.
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Oh I totally understand how you need a break!!!! No matter how delightful visitors are- it is wonderful to get some time to yourself. As you said, once you have had the time to rest- then you are able to get back into the saddle and interact...and be the BEST inn keeper you can be!!
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The Writer's Journey · 706 weeks ago

It seems to me like an innkeeper would need to build in many mini-breaks/alone time into his/her schedule. Being in the hospitality industry, you are likely meeting many personalities, and I would imagine having time for your own stillness is a great necessity.
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I don't know how you stand it. I don't have it in me to be an innkeeper-I need my personal space and quiet time like I need air!
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judy stock · 700 weeks ago

Demanding work isn't it! But ever once in awhile you get that walk on your lovely beach that refresh everything! Keep taking those breaks.

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