Monday, September 05, 2011

Two Comments: One Positive, One Negative

Happy Labor Day, everyone!

In August, a blog reader bothered to comment on a very old post. It was about which Wellfleet’s kettle ponds are personal favorites. Anonymous wrote in the comment, “I figure Sven's must be Great Pond since he goes down on our private beach every year and sits in our chairs and enjoys the view without ever leaving even a note of thanks.”

It is true that during the spring, fall, and winter, we sometimes walk around the ponds. It’s quiet, peaceful, and deserted. No one is around. All the second-home owners have gone home to the city where they live. The beauty of the National Seashore is free for all to enjoy. The words “private beach” make no sense at such moments.

Sven, who is 73, sometimes gets tired and will rest while I take photos for this blog. And, yes, sometimes he sits down on a log, overturned boat, chair, or whatever happens to be handy. The world needs more generous-minded folks, like my husband. Private beaches do not exist in Sweden, his country.

Mean-spirited comments are very rare, thank goodness. At about the same time, I was contacted by a high school friend who found me through an ad for the bed & breakfast and calls herself a “fan” of this blog. Charlotte wrote, “I’ve just returned from the internet café in the little seaside town of Rapallo, in Liguria, where I’m staying for most of August. I went to check my e-mail and your daily blog entry. I don’t know how you do it. All the hard work and long hours in running a successful B&B are truly admirable. You’re a veritable Wonderwoman!”

You can easily guess which comment made my day. Much nicer to be compared to Wonderwoman than criticized for trespassing, don’t you think?

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Picky picky. Good thing you let those kinds of jabs roll right off your back!
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Jane Boursaw · 707 weeks ago

Oh that's crazy about the beach. It's a sad state of affairs when someone gets perturbed about someone resting on a beach. And here in the Traverse City area, I believe that people only have ownership to the "high water line," which sometimes ends up in the yards of those who live close to the water. So technically, a person could walk on their yard if that's where the high water mark is.
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I'm just shaking my head- I do not comprehend this thinking!!! Even when I have guests who stay with me...and leave without thanking me...I don't give it another thought- their presence is thanks enough--- the fact that Sven chose to enjoy the splendor of nature on what they consider "their' private beach- is thanks enough, because it shows he appreciates their view :) ha ha!! ;)

So glad you got that other comment to counter balance the other comment.
I think there should be no private ownership of waterfront and no private building on waterfront. I think the oceanfront should be open to all to visit. But then, I'm married to a Swede also.
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Living Large · 707 weeks ago

Cranky, miserable people. What makes people so mean? We take walks along our road too where it is deserted during the off season. We sometimes stop and take a rest on our neighbors porch, enjoying the view they are not. They don't mind, for they know that as year long residents, we watch over their property and would be the ones there in a second to secure it should a storm or something more sinister disturb it.
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I'm surprised so many people have such expressed antipathy toward such a cherished individual, civil right - private property. No one enjoys a surly, critical comment, but the solution to such attitudes shouldn't be to inflict the "tragedy of the commons" upon all owners and visitors. There is a LOT of private property located WITHIN the nat'l seashore boundaries! It is largely private owners that manage the exclusive access and maintain real property making a community strong. Perhaps it comes down to different perceptions of fleeting privacy and mutual respect - contingent on one's vantage point?
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Stan, I must say I was shocked by this comment by Anonymous. The person did not even deign to leave his or her name. Anonymous is complaining about something that happened ONCE. It is not as if we made a habit of walking to his pond-front property and having a picnic there, or something. We are talking attitude here, in my opinion. Look at how I treated Deirdre, a total stranger who was making herself at home in front of my house, without having knocked on the door, reported a few posts ago. I could have written about the issue of shellfishermen driving across beach-front property as well, and how private owners oppose this. Or, the pond-front owner who put up a chain across his access road to stop "trespassers" when half of the road does not belong to him, and anyone has a right to walk through. This same person ordered me away from his "property" when I was showing the pond to my children several years ago. I trotted down to Town Hall and asked if he had a right to do so. He does not. The National Seashore, on the other side of the road, leads to a non-provate beach on the pond, next to "his" beach, but no one uses the non-provate beach because of his chain and warning signs. This is the same pond as where Anonymous has a summer house, but probably not the same property. Is it because these people pay such high taxes for "water view" that they lose their humanity?

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