Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Wellfleet in September = Paradise 4 Kids

September is the best month to introduce small children to the ocean. This week, for instance, the blue-green Atlantic purrs like a kitten. Gentle waves splash onto the shore. Puffy white clouds billow on the horizon. On such a day, children can feel safe at the beach. They can get their feet wet without the fear of being overwhelmed by undertow. Their enthusiasm will remain intact once they return home. And, the beach offers so many sensory experiences. There's the prickly sensation of salt water on skin, the sand sucking at toes, the repetitive motion of the waves as they roll towards shore. Sand is such a marvelous play medium. The beach is, in fact, like a giant sandbox.

Yesterday two kids, had built an impressive array of sand castles at LeCount Hollow Beach. Parents hovered nearby. As decoration, the four-year-olds had used what they found. I especially liked the spindly sponge that had been erected as a drawbridge, in vertical position. There had been numerous crab carcasses available, as well as small dead sharks and seagull feathers.

When I saw the perfect round towers, I wondered how much help the children had received from their eager entourage. The beach has been known to bring out the inner child in all of us. How can anyone resist?

In September, the seals are out, too, popping up, here and there, as if to say, “Hello. Come on in! The water’s fine.”

We saw a Lithuanian family, mesmerized by several seals. There was also a group of adults standing totally still. Camera in hand, or peering through binoculars from a distance, the tourists could not get enough of our local wildlife.

The seals are obviously social creatures, as curious about us as we are of them. They demand attention in such a jovial way. A group of us stood on the shore watching the performance as one seal dove head-first into a wave, right past a buddy who was swimming belly-up, without a care in the world.

“Are the seals eating sharks?” a tourist asked Sven.

“No, it’s the other way round,” he said. “A great white was sighted in Truro.”

On our way back, a well-tanned man carrying several beach stones, patted Sven on the back and said, “This beats the office any day.”

So true!

Many of us still have beach memories from childhood. I hated the sand getting caught in my bathing suit. I also remember sitting under our blue beach umbrella here in Wellfleet, when my brother was a baby, and collecting shells. What do you remember?

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I agree that the beach is a playground for little ones and adults as well!

Growing up in central Mexico we didn't have access to the sea/ocean but we did have a few rivers I remember but I'm terrified of the water. I think since my Mom didn't know how to swim, she was always saying, be careful, don't go to deep, and so now as an adult I know how to swim (sort of) but if you ask me to stay still and just float I panic and fear takes over me. I'm trying to change this with Beli. She loves the sea and although I tend to be overprotective, I;m letting her spread her wings and swim to the deeper end because I don't want her to be fearful of the sea/ocean.
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The beach is so evocative for me. I spent my childhood right near it, on it, with it. I miss it ALL the time...and drive back (about 90 minutes) as often as I can, if only for a glimpse of the ocean and a breath of the air. It feels so good.
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My kids just come alive at the beach. Our beach isn't nearly as picturesque as yours, but still there's something about the waves rolling in and out that just calming and energizing all at the same time.
Love this post, Sandy. I grew up right next to (and IN, much of the time), East Grand Traverse Bay, which is an offshoot of Lake Michigan. I have so many great memories of the beach and bay, including swimming for hours on end in the summer and ice-skating for hours on end in the winter.

One year, I got an inflatable raft for my birthday - patriotic with its red, white and blue colors. My brothers made a "real" raft out of some farm wood and barrels. Sometimes our whole family would pile into our little boat and go out fishing near the "drop-off." In the summers, my brothers and I would take the boat out to the Old Mission Resort to pick up my sister, who was babysitting out there.

Even now, many of my night-time dreams are centered around those indelible childhood memories of the bay, beach, water, sand, boat and sun. And how blessed I am to be living on that same beach just a few miles down the way. My kids are growing up with it, too.
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I love your personal posts like this, Sandy. They're calming and lovely -- just exactly what I need to read when my life's too rowdy and demanding.
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I have to admit that when I was little, I was not a happy beach person. Maybe because my mother was maniacal about sunscreen (can't blame her, we're redheads!) and all that sticky sunscreen attracted sand and salt from the water.

But now I love the beach (and I still wear sunscreen, just the spray kind so it's not as sticky). In fact, we visited Easton's Beach in RI a few weeks ago, and I had a blast chasing a seagull away from our fellow sunbather's blanket. When it persisted despite my best efforts, I snapped a photo of the seagull eating Cape Cod potato chips after puncturing the bag with his beak. Ah, late summer bliss ...
Like Susan, I was never much of a beach person. I couldn't sit in the sun and be still! But I do remember being in southern France as a pre-teen and enjoying the beaches and the blue blue blue of the water. Still, despite my mixed feelings about the beach, my kids LOVE it. And I love to watch them loving it...
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I grew up going to the beach daily in the summer time. It is in West Falmouth, we called it Horseneck Beach but it might be Black Beach.

We made it up to Race Point Beach today, biked around the Province Lands, stopped and got bread at the PB and are pooped out tonight. What a day!
Tomorrow is family meet up and some kayaking.
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Yeah I do remember the lump of sand in the bottom of the bathing suit. Yuk. But I also remember my dad's fried chicken. He always made it, along with his famous potato salad, to take to the beach.
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We were just at a beach near you, a few weeks ago. Just one blissful day after weeks of entertaining family, just the children and my husband and me. My sons went out and enjoyed the low tide. My daughters played in the sand. My three year old daughter made sand castles and cakes very similar to the ones you photographed. Embellished with bits of seagrass and shells. So simple and sweet. I used to think of the beach as a bit of a pain.....all the sand, the heat, the blinding sun. But the beach in September, as you describe it, is a different world entirely. I can't wait until I am back in the U.S. year round and get to see it in all its seasons.
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As kids we stayed with cousins near Saint's Landing in Brewster. We spent every nice day on the beach and on the flats, which had fishing weirs.
I remember sunburns and salty skin, horseshoe crabs in abundance, a bobwhite quail calling in the morning, and ghost stories at night in the attic, where all of us kids slept. I never wanted to get out of the water, and cried when we had to leave the Cape.
I remember hiding from the water, because I was deathly afraid of the waves. Even now, 30 years later, I still avoid those waves!

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