Thursday, February 16, 2012

Boston/Wellfleet/Boston/Wellfleet/Boston/Wellfleet

I’m surprised how often Wellfleet has crept into the conversation over the past month. As most of you know, I am not on Cape Cod right now. I’m attending Grub Street, in Boston. During one of my first writing classes, a fellow student exclaimed, “You live in Wellfleet? Awesome! We spend a week every summer camping in Truro.”

I had come to the city to take courses, but last week the trajectory of my stay suddenly bifurcated and I ended up spending four days at Mass General after my elder daughter had a serious emergency procedure. Then, once home, she developed a small blood clot. Back we went to the ER. Her sister was with us, and we were discussing the future. Nat said, “You know, we will probably all be walking Wellfleet’s beaches, like Grandma, way into our 90s.” That was my second ER visit in one week and her third. The comment may not have eased my stress, but it did provide a good laugh, indispensable at such times.

A few days earlier, after the procedure, we talked death. (It had been on our minds, so why not discuss it?) Nat mentioned the pear tree under which we had buried my parents’ ashes, the pear tree, planted in Wellfleet.

At least the view was incredible. Her room sat at the top of the tallest MGH building, and Boston stretched out at our feet. It was possible to see from the Citgo sign all the way to Logan airport. Hills loomed to the west. Newton Highlands? Wellesley? Beacon Hill was chock-a-block with what reminded me of miniature Monopoly houses, one cuter and more expensive than the next. Grass grew on the roof of some of the buildings. To the east, I could watch the interminable ballet of jets landing or taking off. And, to the south? A string of lights on the highway, leading home to Wellfleet.

Now she is on blood thinners, counter-intuitive since she has a bleeding disorder, but necessary to dissolve the clot.

I don’t like to discuss family on this blog. That’s not it's focus. Still, I do believe in the power of prayer and wanted readers to know why my posts may be a bit off for a while.

This has been a lesson on what matters in life. Family matters. Cherish yours.

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amywellfleet · 683 weeks ago

My heart is with you. All good thoughts for your daughter, for you and for your whole family.
I will add your daughter and your family to my prayer list. What you say is so true, cherish your family. Take care
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Living Large · 683 weeks ago

Thinking of you and your daughter.
Oh yes, family does matter and it is good for us to be praying! I am praying. I had been feeling as though something might not be quite okay over there on your side and had been praying already- but now that I know what is specifically up- I'll continue to pray.

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david wright · 683 weeks ago

I concur on your priorities, and wish you all the best of luck.
Thinking of you all. Things like this really point us in the direction of True North..even if we were already pointed there, it reminds us what we already know.
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What a lovely and touching post, Sandy. I've been thinking about both of you and hoping for the best. I can't imagine how hard this has been for you.
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Sending prayers for healing, peace, faith, hope to your entire family and you as you nurture each other with such unconditional love ...
My thought are with you and your daughter.
Thinking of you and your daughter and sending up healing prayers.
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You and your daughter are in my thoughts and prayers, dear Sandy.
Family does come first. I'm sure your daughter is glad that you can be there for her. You both are in my thoughts and prayers too.
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alisa bowman · 683 weeks ago

So hard, these times in life when we fear the worst. I'm glad you can talk candidly with each other. My heart is with you.
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I hope she is feeling better. We recently had a family member in the hospital and it does make you think about things differently.
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Such important lessons learned in hospitals. It's scary and upsetting and about a million other not-fun emotions, but it's good to know what you know and to carry that with you in daily life. Hoping all the best for Nat.
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