Friday, March 23, 2012

Ten Lessons Learned over the Winter

On Tuesday, the Grub Street Blog published “The Magic of Finding Your Book,” a piece I wrote. Check it out. Now that I’m back home, time to reflect on what two and a half months of city living taught me:

1.) Commuting is no fun and more strenuous at almost 65.
2.) Proximity to a hospital is severely lacking on the Outer Cape, so it’s great expansion of Outer Cape Health Services will include urgent care facilities in its new building.
3.) I do more walking in the city.
4.) But walking a Wellfleet beach is more pleasant than walking city streets.
5.) A good small pizza costs twice as much money here.
6.) The city offers (much) more ethnic food.
7.) The silence of Wellfleet clears the mind and rests the soul.
8.) The movie selection leaves much to be desired.
9.) There’s more chance for an innkeeper of missing out on booking requests, left on a phone machine, for instance, while living in two places at once.
10.) I gain weight in the city, unable to resist Toscanini’s new flavor: Goat Cheese Brownie. Yum!

Comments (13)

Loading... Logging you in...
  • Logged in as
alisa bowman's avatar

alisa bowman · 678 weeks ago

Isn't it interesting that for every pro there's a con? This really shows that variety is the spice of life!
Oh darn on #8. I was hoping you'd have a great selection of theaters and movies in the city. Did you see anything notable?
My recent post Julia Roberts as an Evil Queen? I Think Not
1 reply · active 678 weeks ago
Sorry if this was not clear. Great cinema experience in Cambridge, but not so much in Wellfleet. Since Sven was not with me though, I did not see many films. We almost saw The Separation twice. Doubting that one will come here, so will have to wait for the DVD.
I do occasionally find I long for silence and rural scenes, but have somehow turned out to be more of a city mouse. Maybe it was growing up in West Texas that turned me.
My recent post Thoughts While Hanging Upside Down, Kind of Like a Bat
interesting that you do more walking in the city. I've always found Cambridge and Somerville good places for walking, other parts of the Boston area not so much, though I am sure thee are many fine places I've yet to explore.

goat cheese brownie ice cream, eh? I think I'll pass on that, and stick to the butternut squash and onion pizza at Veggie Planet (though it does have a small bit of goat cheese on it)
My recent post music, silence, and spiritual journey
Living Large's avatar

Living Large · 678 weeks ago

It sounds as though the benefits and challenges of your big city vs. your country life is the same as it is here. Would love to see "Titanic" in 3D, but there isn't a decent movie theater here, hardly any good ethnic food and our nearest hospital is 50 minutes away, making Life Flight insurance a must here. I do walk in the city, but I also walk here too. But there are some days I would kill for a coffee house coffee!
My recent post Lightning and June Bugs in March!
1 reply · active 678 weeks ago
I know Alex Hay of Mac's Seafood and his wife Elspeth, who writes Diary of a Locavore and does the Local Food Report on NPR, dream of opening a coffee shop. The issue is infrastructure, and sewers for Main Street. Hopefully some day their dream will become reality.
I am NOT a city girl. I can do it for a few days, sometimes, but living the rural life for 10+ years now ... I do long for the mtn and all it means / feels to me. And, that's saying something for a born extrovert.
Goat cheese brownies? It sounds like you need to pass that suggestion on to one of the local bakeries in Wellfleet. Commuting doesn't sound like any fun no matter what your age
This post makes me want to think about what I learned this winter. I'll give it a go:

1) That I really miss my mom, who died so suddenly, and that I will probably be missing her for a long time (maybe the rest of my life?)

2) Global climate change is terrifying and happening in our own back yard.

3) When I really put my mind to working, I get an enormous amount done. (I've been writing a book all winter.)

4) I miss my friends on-line. I haven't been as active a reader because of #3.

5) Cars that seat 6 - 8 people are so much better designed in Europe. It's embarrassing how un-environmental we are in America.

6) I need to get more exercise.

7) I have wonderful kids.

8) There are so many good writers in the world. I am in awe. I've read dozens of good books this winter. Not a dud among them!

9) I am glad we live in Ashland, Oregon, and not a smaller town where you need a car or a bigger city where there's more crime and pollution.

10) I love looking at the photographs on your blog, especially of the ocean.
My recent post Are You Being Too Critical of Your Kids?
1 reply · active 677 weeks ago
Jennifer, thanks for sharing this list. Glad to hear your book is almost done. Wish I could visit Ashland. I agree that global climate change is terrifying. What if the Gulfstream stops? Then BIG TROUBLE. I'm sorry about your mom's passing. You are right about missing her for the rest of your life. Since she was a scientist, her passing is a loss for all of us, especially those of us who could benefit from her research on Lyme disease. It was lovely to meet you this fall in person. The ocean is a balm. Glad the photographs here transmit some of that feeling. I hope you will visit the next time you come east.
I love the peace and quiet you can experience in the country, but I also like some of the city's conveniences. Wouldn't it be lovely to be able to have a residence in each?
My recent post The Tree Bike: Fact or Fiction
It seems like each season brings new opportunities to reflect on the self. Wouldn't it be interesting to keep a kind of journal over the years, and look back and catch the themes?
My recent post stuck/unstuck: MEN UNDRESSED contributors talk internal conflict and writing: Steve Almond

Post a new comment

Comments by