The couple stayed in our Green Room. The reviewer describes the rug as “well-worn.” Maybe it could do with a trip to the cleaners but the colors, beige and green, are perfect with the wallpaper
Our Memorial Day couple also took issue with breakfast. They wanted it more “wholesome.” Actually, the wife requested almond butter and toast, so that’s what she got, along with fresh fruit, granola, and yogurt, all organic, standard fare at Chez Sven.
The reviewer states, “the B&B was much less of a value than other B&Bs we've visited on Cape Cod.” Trip Advisor lists the rate as $150-$180. The rate, in season, is actually $200/night. Holiday weekends are the same as summer. These folks came the night before Memorial Day, so they had the Green Room one night for $150, which is what similar-category B&Bs charge.
Fourth negative comment: the couple reported that the photos on our Web site do not reflect reality, and singled out, in particular, the kitchen. Dan Cutrona spent a day taking the photos. We live in this house and use the kitchen and living room, so that’s why they look “lived in.” That’s the whole point of choosing a B&B over a hotel, to get a peek at the life the innkeepers lead in a specific community.
And, the couple had seemed to be enjoying themselves. That's what was so surprising to me. Did they realize how writing such a review might impact my business? Could they have been unhappy because a sister, who had later tried to book separately for Memorial Day weekend, did not get a room?
I was still digesting the nastiness when there came a knock at the door. A blog reader named Tim stood outside. He had contacted me earlier and asked if he might stop by to say hello. I explained my recent discovery of the Trip Advisor review and said that I was still smarting from it.
“Oh, don’t let that bother you,” laughed Tim,
We all know how resilient writers need to be when it comes to criticism. I’m great at criticism of my writing, but I don’t like erroneous information being posted on a reference site that affects my bottom line. Tim and Stella sympathized.
We discussed the beaches and restaurants.
“Mac’s Shack? Overpriced,” he opined. “$32 for a piece of halibut, I mean, come on!”
We didn’t know each other but felt as if we were already friends due to our shared appreciation for this special town. Of course, we also have Chezsven Blog in common. What’s more Tim and Stella are Springsteen fans, and I HEART Springsteen fans.
Five and a half years ago, I started writing a blog as promotion for the B&B, but my blog has morphed into so much more. Although Chezsven Blog is about being a green innkeeper and living on the Outer Cape year-round, Wellfleet is really the star, not me or Chez Sven. This was the third time I have had a visit from a blog reader. Tim and Stella thanked me over and over for my daily updates on life here and, by the time they left, I felt a whole lot better about the Trip Advisor review.
What do you think about Trip Advisor? Do you let yourself be swayed by one review if it is substantially different from the others? Blogs are often touted as "platform" for writers. Do you think a good blog really serves to promote the writer? Why do you read this blog?
Zuleme · 718 weeks ago
Some people will come to a B and B expecting luxury. My friends owned one like that, antiques, beds with 18 pillows, an elegant breakfast room. To me, that feels ostentatious and uncomfortable. I like a place that feels like a home. So I read Trip Advisor with the proverbial grain of salt.
The lesson I learned is not to believe the web sites where no reviews are allowed except for the ones posted by the owner. That's how we ended up in our expensive non ocean front cottage that was advertised as ocean front. Trip Advisor would have saved me that!
I read your blog because I am a Cape native and I miss it daily. I like to see what is going on and wish I could be there more that I can. On one of my last visits my gourmet friend was impressed that I knew about PB and wanted to go there.
If you are going to publish any of your writing, you'll get the same thing. Some people will say really dumb things about your writing and some people will say very nice things. As Olof says "gotta punch with the rollys"
Hope to meet up with you some nice quiet after the season day!
Living Large · 718 weeks ago
amywellfleet 46p · 718 weeks ago
I do use Trip Advisor and tend to look for the overall trend in comments. I can usually tell if a negative one is just from someone who had a bad experience for some reason. If most of the others are very positive, I ignore the bad one. But I do like the feedback from "real people" and have found it generally accurate and helpful.
I read your blog because we spend our summers in our cottage in Wellfleet. I want to see the gorgeous photos and learn as much as I can about this wonderful town. And I enjoy your writing!
anjuli · 718 weeks ago
When I entered the blog world I didn't realize they were platforms for the writers- I had originally thought they were a means of recording events or themes - like an online journal. I've since seen for many that it is often a place to showcase their writing. I love your blog because it showcases your inn, your town, and important (vital) information....and often through all this you are showcased.
I visit your blog because I love learning new things (have learned so much)- You know I've told you I do love the East Coast and specifically the area you are staying in...so I love reading about it and learning more about it. And if I ever have a chance I will be the one knocking on your door for a visit :)
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chezsven 82p · 718 weeks ago
Living Large · 718 weeks ago
I manage social media for a couple of companies. One thing it points out, that I forgot to mention, is that you can respond to negative feedback (and should) in a professional way that lets people know you hear the concerns (without acknowledging them or entering into a defensive posture). This lets potential customers know you acknowledge their concerns. I took this into consideration when the management of the hotel I stayed at acknowledged the problem and they move quickly to resolve any complaints.
Melanie · 718 weeks ago
I love this blog because I get to visit the Cape through your eyes and your words. Also because you are striving to make the whole world a better place by working on your corner of it. If everyone worked on their corner of the world as hard as you do, what changes could be wrought?
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