Tuesday, June 21, 2011

Thoughts on Promotion, Reviews, and Blog Readers

I have never been a fan of Trip Advisor. Now, dissed by a Memorial Day client, I like this site even less.

The couple stayed in our Green Room. The reviewer describes the rug as “well-worn.” Maybe it could do with a trip to the cleaners but the colors, beige and green, are perfect with the wallpaper and add to the feeling of serenity, which most Green Room guests appreciate. These lovely ladies from England, for instance, here last week for four days, loved the Green Room. Miranda and Jane wrote in the guestbook, “Has been enchanting. You’ve made us feel very welcome, a true home away from home.”

Our Memorial Day couple also took issue with breakfast. They wanted it more “wholesome.” Actually, the wife requested almond butter and toast, so that’s what she got, along with fresh fruit, granola, and yogurt, all organic, standard fare at Chez Sven.

The reviewer states, “the B&B was much less of a value than other B&Bs we've visited on Cape Cod.” Trip Advisor lists the rate as $150-$180. The rate, in season, is actually $200/night. Holiday weekends are the same as summer. These folks came the night before Memorial Day, so they had the Green Room one night for $150, which is what similar-category B&Bs charge.

Fourth negative comment: the couple reported that the photos on our Web site do not reflect reality, and singled out, in particular, the kitchen. Dan Cutrona spent a day taking the photos. We live in this house and use the kitchen and living room, so that’s why they look “lived in.” That’s the whole point of choosing a B&B over a hotel, to get a peek at the life the innkeepers lead in a specific community.

And, the couple had seemed to be enjoying themselves. That's what was so surprising to me. Did they realize how writing such a review might impact my business? Could they have been unhappy because a sister, who had later tried to book separately for Memorial Day weekend, did not get a room?

I was still digesting the nastiness when there came a knock at the door. A blog reader named Tim stood outside. He had contacted me earlier and asked if he might stop by to say hello. I explained my recent discovery of the Trip Advisor review and said that I was still smarting from it.

“Oh, don’t let that bother you,” laughed Tim,, a successful sports writer from New York City. Tim said he reads Chezsven Blog faithfully every day. He was accompanied by his toddler son Nicholas, and wife Stella, who works at HBO. They like Wellfleet so much that they are thinking of buying real estate here.

We all know how resilient writers need to be when it comes to criticism. I’m great at criticism of my writing, but I don’t like erroneous information being posted on a reference site that affects my bottom line. Tim and Stella sympathized.

We discussed the beaches and restaurants.

“Mac’s Shack? Overpriced,” he opined. “$32 for a piece of halibut, I mean, come on!”

We didn’t know each other but felt as if we were already friends due to our shared appreciation for this special town. Of course, we also have Chezsven Blog in common. What’s more Tim and Stella are Springsteen fans, and I HEART Springsteen fans.

Five and a half years ago, I started writing a blog as promotion for the B&B, but my blog has morphed into so much more. Although Chezsven Blog is about being a green innkeeper and living on the Outer Cape year-round, Wellfleet is really the star, not me or Chez Sven. This was the third time I have had a visit from a blog reader. Tim and Stella thanked me over and over for my daily updates on life here and, by the time they left, I felt a whole lot better about the Trip Advisor review.

What do you think about Trip Advisor? Do you let yourself be swayed by one review if it is substantially different from the others? Blogs are often touted as "platform" for writers. Do you think a good blog really serves to promote the writer? Why do you read this blog?

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The place my mother goes for her vacation with a friend every year gets awful reviews and great ones on Trip Advisor. I like Trip Advisor because you will get facts about places that won't be advertised, like "hard to find" "next to a busy highway" "the family and their six kids live here". And some of those reviews will be meaningless, like the one saying the rug was "well worn" or that a healthy breakfast was not "wholesome". I'll never forget a piano teacher telling me that "%50 of the audience is going to love you anyway and your job is to get a little of the other %50"
Some people will come to a B and B expecting luxury. My friends owned one like that, antiques, beds with 18 pillows, an elegant breakfast room. To me, that feels ostentatious and uncomfortable. I like a place that feels like a home. So I read Trip Advisor with the proverbial grain of salt.
The lesson I learned is not to believe the web sites where no reviews are allowed except for the ones posted by the owner. That's how we ended up in our expensive non ocean front cottage that was advertised as ocean front. Trip Advisor would have saved me that!
I read your blog because I am a Cape native and I miss it daily. I like to see what is going on and wish I could be there more that I can. On one of my last visits my gourmet friend was impressed that I knew about PB and wanted to go there.
If you are going to publish any of your writing, you'll get the same thing. Some people will say really dumb things about your writing and some people will say very nice things. As Olof says "gotta punch with the rollys"
Hope to meet up with you some nice quiet after the season day!
I did look on TripAdvisor regarding the hotel I stayed in NYC. I wanted to see if anyone was reporting bedbugs. It's funny, as I have a post similar to this on my blog today, about people's thoughts of us and our lives. As business people, we know in this digital age, we put ourselves out there for the masses and that will include some form of negative feedback, that's a given. Maybe these people were hacked over their sister not getting a room and it set them off for a negative view of everything. Who knows, whether it was their honest view of your B&B or if they were just being vicious. As a person who seems to be always swimming against the current, I let these types of things roll off my back. You can always counter the negative by asking guest you *know* had a pleasant experience to write a great review! :) As for blogs and other social media, I think it is a must for writers these days, particularly if we're looking for a book deal. :)
I tend to stew over criticism so I can understand why you were upset. I teach, and I can get 75 great evaluations and one negative one, and it is always the negative one that sticks in my head. Some people just like to be critical, so we have to take more pleasure in the praise and less pain from the critics!
I do use Trip Advisor and tend to look for the overall trend in comments. I can usually tell if a negative one is just from someone who had a bad experience for some reason. If most of the others are very positive, I ignore the bad one. But I do like the feedback from "real people" and have found it generally accurate and helpful.
I read your blog because we spend our summers in our cottage in Wellfleet. I want to see the gorgeous photos and learn as much as I can about this wonderful town. And I enjoy your writing!
I actually have found online reviews very UNhelpful- I find that if someone has a personal peeve about something- they will take it out in an online review which makes it difficult to determine what is fact and what is personal preference. I would wish they would be more factual in their reviews. If there are at least 50 negative reviews maybe I would pay attention- but if there were simply one or two negative reviews and 12 other positive ones- I would not care a whit about the negative ones!!

When I entered the blog world I didn't realize they were platforms for the writers- I had originally thought they were a means of recording events or themes - like an online journal. I've since seen for many that it is often a place to showcase their writing. I love your blog because it showcases your inn, your town, and important (vital) information....and often through all this you are showcased.

I visit your blog because I love learning new things (have learned so much)- You know I've told you I do love the East Coast and specifically the area you are staying in...so I love reading about it and learning more about it. And if I ever have a chance I will be the one knocking on your door for a visit :)
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Thanks, Anjuli. I really appreciate all your comments.
Interesting. I just received this press release from the University of Missouri re: negative online comments and the effects on business. You might check it out: http://munews.missouri.edu/news-releases/2011/062...
I manage social media for a couple of companies. One thing it points out, that I forgot to mention, is that you can respond to negative feedback (and should) in a professional way that lets people know you hear the concerns (without acknowledging them or entering into a defensive posture). This lets potential customers know you acknowledge their concerns. I took this into consideration when the management of the hotel I stayed at acknowledged the problem and they move quickly to resolve any complaints.
Some people aren't happy, no matter what. That is absolutely the truth of it. I can understand why you feel gutted. I'd feel down right outraged at someone complaining about getting the breakfast THEY asked for! GRRR.

I love this blog because I get to visit the Cape through your eyes and your words. Also because you are striving to make the whole world a better place by working on your corner of it. If everyone worked on their corner of the world as hard as you do, what changes could be wrought?
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I try to ignore negative comments online and judge a place for myself. Generally only complainers take the time to post a negative review. Those that have no complaints usually don't comment. Don't let one unreasonable person get to you. You offer a safe, clean, green Bed and Breakfast in Paradise. They are just jealous!
Emailed by Catherine: "The negative reviewer would be happier if she lingered on the positive, and not the negative, whether she was traveling or just getting up in the morning. Why spread negative, and unhelpful remarks about her assessment of your carpet, when she could just as easily have reveled in the cozy comfortableness of your home, for it is your home, which makes her remarks all that more insulting, and cuts to the quick. I'd say she is one of those permanently unsatisfied individuals, who, as I grow older, I feel sorry for. They have rather missed the point of living."
I also tend to ignore negative reviews, especially if they seem persnickety or strangely unique. I'm all for people sharing their impressions (good and bad), but if it seems like a true attack-style review, then I tune out. There is a local person known for being practically a professional gadfly, and once I realized the same person was posting many of the negative comments on such sites, I just had to laugh. Truly. Nothing makes this person happy. Everyone else is ALWAYS wrong. This person is ALWAYS right. I cannot imagine living that way, so I just skim over those kinds of reviews and keep moving. Hang in there. I'm sorry this review bummed you out.
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I hope you are able to ignore this negativity, although I can understand your feelings about it. You work so hard and then someone comes along only to criticize everything - not a good feeling. But there are some people who are just plain negative, and no matter what you do, you can't please them. And they love to take a platform (esp. one where they can hide) and let it all out. They're probably angry at something else and using this opportunity to vent. Keep doing the great job you are doing - there are doubtless many,many people out there who appreciate it.
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